I arrived in Taiwan in August '05. As an elementary school teacher from Toronto, I took a leave of absence 2 pursue a teaching position at a public school in Douliu City, Taiwan. Teaching is my passion & it has led me to Taiwan. God opened the door for me..This is my story and my journey..Pls read my testimony on this blog: "Live Strong"...(Nov. archives) "My food, is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work". John 4:34 NIV

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Matchmaking 101

It's customary and rather cultural in Taiwan for parents and even friends to act as "matchmakers" for all those available and single individuals. Is it a favor one does for a friend or family member? Is it "about face" or image as are many things here in Taiwan? My impression is that issues or things become more "about face" rather subliminally beneath the surface rather than on the surface then say, the feeling that I had when I was in Japan where I got the impression that image on the surface is everything.

Recently, I heard a story about a single teacher being summoned (telephoned) to the principal's office. Not knowing what the matter was all about and being quite anxious at the call. The teacher went to the principal's office not knowing what to expect. Upon arrival, she was introduced to a friend of the principal (a former principal herself) & a so-called "matchmaker". She proceeded to ask the teacher many personal questions/preferences...When I heard this story, I didn't know what would drop first, my jaw or my eyeballs! I almost dropped out of shock! Kind of funny though as my mind quickly thought about the animated movie, "Mulan" where she is set up with potential suitors by the town matchmaker. Perhaps the principal was afraid that if a teacher was single & unattached, this may diminish her chances of staying with the school. By the way, I'm just curious to know if the same type of arrangements are made for boys. Hmm, I need to ask about that one...

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOL

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